Quick Critiques

Actually, unless God steps in with instant revelation about the marriage to all the parties involved, it probably won't happen in 5 minutes. In fact, if you make it happen in 5 minutes without God's revelation, you are probably not in His perfect will. And, really, you don't even want a marriage that isn't God's best for you anyway. So the main question approaching any marriage should be, "Is it God's will?"

1 Corinthians 14:34 Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.

I have read several places recently that Paul must have been referencing Greek or Roman civil law here, not God's law or the Old Testament. I find this indefensible for a number of reasons.